#81722 - Did she have a boyfriend, and was she still a virgin? The answer to the first question was no, she had no boyfriend and was not quite sure how to answer the second question? Triva then asked rather bluntly, … you know had sex with a boy? The answer of course was no. even at 17. This was followed by talking about her incredible knowledge of black African History and her passion for everything that had to do with slavery during the 1800s.